OPEN SECRET - Dag Heward-Mills

READ: Isaiah 26:3, 4
…and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.
Genesis 3:16

God proclaimed a woman’s desire for a husband a curse because it was part of the woman's punishment for disobeying God. Marriage presents many frustrations to women across the globe.

Sometimes, single ladies plod through life like disappointed and disillusioned travellers, instead of living happy and fulfilled lives. The Scripture makes it clear that the husband will rule over the woman; that the woman will be dominated and governed by the man. This is also a curse. Yet, many women see oppressive men and desire to be ruled by them. Where does this irresistible desire come from? The answer is found in the curse pronounced in the Garden of Eden.

There are married women who have wise ideas and take good decisions. But they are ruled and dominated by foolish husbands. There are many men who do not exhibit the wisdom of a ruler who occupy the place of a governor in the marriage. It is very difficult to live with someone who does not lead in the right direction. It is distressing to follow a leader who is unreasonable. Yet, this is the lot of many women. This also is a curse!

Accepting that there is a curse is a first step to your victory. Understanding how this curse plays out is the key to getting your victory. Women, learn how to overcome this curse by finding your strength in God. Put your hope in God and develop a close personal relationship with Him.