‎Michelle McKinney Hammond‬

“God allows us to hear and see what we need to in order to give us the opportunity to save ourselves from future heartache, but usually we are so caught up in the euphoria of having the prospect of romance that we ignore the waving red flags and proceed without caution. Bad move. If a man says, “I am not ready for a commitment,” the true translation is, “I’m not ready for a commitment with you.” Don’t get mad. Thank him for his honesty and either place him in the friendship file or move on if you know that you will not be able to spend time with him without your expectations for more being raised.”